This snapshot of each type offers a starting point for identifying your Enneagram type by focusing on motivation and stress responses rather than behavior alone. You may see one clear type or a few that resonate—both are normal. Once you have 2-3 that stand out to you, read more about each one and see if that also helps narrow it down.

1 – The Perfectionist

  • Deepest insecurity: Being wrong, bad, or morally flawed

  • To stay connected, I learned to… be good, responsible, and self-controlled

  • What guides my decisions: What is right, ethical, or correct

  • Under stress: Critical, tense, rigid, self-judging

  • Read more about Enneagram 1

2 – The Helper

  • Deepest insecurity: Being unlovable or unwanted

  • To stay connected, I learned to… be helpful, needed, and emotionally available

  • What guides my decisions: How others will feel or be affected

  • Under stress: Overgiving, resentful, ignoring own needs

  • Read more about Enneagram 2

3 – The Achiever

  • Deepest insecurity: Being worthless or a failure

  • To stay connected, I learned to… succeed, perform, and impress

  • What guides my decisions: What leads to success or approval

  • Under stress: Overworking, image-focused, disconnected from feelings

  • Read more about Enneagram 3

4 – The Individualist

  • Deepest insecurity: Being fundamentally flawed or missing something

  • To stay connected, I learned to… be emotionally honest and unique

  • What guides my decisions: What feels authentic or meaningful

  • Under stress: Emotionally intense, withdrawn, self-comparing

  • Read more about Enneagram 4

5 – The Investigator

  • Deepest insecurity: Being overwhelmed or depleted

  • To stay connected, I learned to… stay self-contained and observant

  • What guides my decisions: Logic, understanding, conserving energy

  • Under stress: Withdrawn, detached, mentally overactive

  • Read more about Enneagram 5

6 – The Loyalist

  • Deepest insecurity: Being unsafe or unsupported

  • To stay connected, I learned to… stay alert, loyal, and prepared

  • What guides my decisions: What feels safest or most reliable

  • Under stress: Anxious, doubtful, worst-case thinking

  • Read more about Enneagram 6

7 – The Enthusiast

  • Deepest insecurity: Being trapped in pain or limitation

  • To stay connected, I learned to… stay upbeat, busy, and future-focused

  • What guides my decisions: What preserves freedom and possibility

  • Under stress: Avoidant, scattered, emotionally bypassing

  • Read more about Enneagram 7

8 – The Challenger

  • Deepest insecurity: Being controlled, harmed, or vulnerable

  • To stay connected, I learned to… be strong, independent, and protective

  • What guides my decisions: Instinct, power, self-protection

  • Under stress: Controlling, confrontational, hardened

  • Read more about Enneagram 8

9 – The Peacemaker

  • Deepest insecurity: Losing connection or creating conflict

  • To stay connected, I learned to… accommodate, merge, and go along

  • What guides my decisions: What maintains or restores peace and harmony

  • Under stress: Disengaged, numbing, passive

  • Read more about Enneagram 9

FURTHER RESOURCES ON THE ENNEAGRAM from Eden

 
Eden Hyder, MA, LPC, LCMHC-QS, EMDR Trained

Eden is an attachment-based, integrative therapist who serves teens, adults and couples in North Carolina and Texas. Eden also offers relational coaching services to those seeking short-term help in shifting chronic relational patterns.

http://www.edenhyder.com
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